I’ve watched in wonder as my boyfriend and his friends (including the Golden Sombrero staff) competed in fantasy baseball year after year. They played baseball together throughout college and I always saw fantasy as a fun extension of that- meaning no girls allowed.
In 2009, Daniel “Dee” Clark’s girlfriend was in the league. As a girlfriend, I was shocked and secretly excited. I quietly held it against Michael Rosenbaum, steaming and waiting for 2010. If she could do it, why couldn’t I? Like the suffragettes before us, she paved the way for another…and I was determined for it to be me.
It took a couple months of convincing (I planted the seed in December 2009) and some self deprecating promises (to do research, to not “embarrass” him). One evening, after a night of being laughed at by a friend whose league would never allow a girl, I asked Mike if it was really that bad. Apparently, it’s up there with having “a girl in the dugout”. Ouch.
He told me to wait it out a few months; he would see if the idea wasn’t quickly rejected by the rest of the league. Apparently, they needed a sixteenth anyway…and due to his friends’ openness (and perhaps pure convenience) I was officially Team T & G, drafting last and without a clue how fantasy baseball worked.
Suddenly, here I am- researching pitching matchups, reading “Pitch or Ditch” daily, stressing out over my Cubs outfielders (Soriano and Byrd) and switching between games while simultaneously refreshing FantasyCast. I am completely obsessed. Still, I feel like such a girl sometimes. I’m having trouble letting go of guys that aren’t doing well- wanting to give them “one more chance” so I wont have to deal with the jealousy of them being picked up by anyone else. Sure…I drafted Joba Chamberlain because I’ve had a crush on him for three years. But I also know what he is capable of in the relief spot- a high nineties fastball and the confidence he never had as a starter. Last week, Chamberlain recorded his first two saves in the past two days (since 2007) and there are more to come.
I’ve always told Mike how jealous I was of the male camaraderie in baseball; the stories, pranks and brotherly love is not often found in female friendships. I am so thankful you all let me in- not all guys are willing to. Girls might never make it into the dugout (except in this really cool dream I have about Joba…) but some of them would make great fantasy players. It’s a place a lot of us have never been and seeing it from this angle makes us understand why so many of you love it so much. I really couldn’t be happier.
PS. Hope your egos won’t hurt too much after getting beat by a girl.
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